LOOKING FOR A REASON
For some victims, the CYCLE OF VIOLENCE is an unyielding, painstaking drudge through a never-ending vicious roller coaster ride of harm and agitation, denial and forced secrecy within the clutches of clandestinity, only serving to beget more and more violence.
It then becomes the revolving doors of such violences that cause unfathomable modalities of psycho-social, emotional, financial, physiological, and even spiritual destabilization and harm as manufactured conflict is their central theme.
These facets make way for abusers to effectively subdue and destroy their targets with less and less effort overtime, through atrociously wearing them down in such a way that both the victim's undoing and demise become imminent as the relationship progresses.
Likewise, abusers who seek to exploit through intimidation, frequently employ the tenets of D.A.R.V.O, to reverse victim and perpetrator, in effort to abscond the consequences of their actions and behaviors from any and all retribution and subsequent reprimand.
They are ever so crafty at destroying their targets in ways that absolve and divert most, if not all, harm caused them, effectively allowing their behaviors to fly well below society's DOMESTIC VIOLENCE radar, while also giving them untethered aim in continuing their reign of terror against other unsuspecting targets of abuse and narcissistic supply.
Such predatory types then, are always Looking For A Reason To Harm twofold, as a means of forcing complicity toward violent proclivities, while also keeping targets enthralled in the terror and torture within these vicious cycles to get what they want from them.
They may Hover and Spy or Triangulate to gain untethered access and dominion over the effectual wherewithal of the target, effectively keeping them deeply immersed within both their aim and reach of harm.
They are also infamously known to rally FLYING MONKEYS and other predatory individuals and groups, to serve as victim harassment and debasement hubs, or to provoke reactive abuse scenarios, especially within public vestiges, to project the dissimulation of victim as predator, while also utilizing abuse reactions as sources of fodder and fuel to effectively procure the imminence of future harm.
Such harassment and debasement might consist of destroying victim survival efforts, by frequent and successive acts of forced economic and financial dearth, provoking stress and maladaptive behaviors, as targets desperately seek to free themselves from the entanglement of forced codependence scenarios.
It might even take the shape of an abuser destroying victim resources, so as to undermine successive survival efforts in other areas of their lives as well, to include educational and work ambitions in aim of effectively destabilizing the survival efforts of the victim outside of the relationship.
Acts of Bioterrorism and Extortion might also be used to gain victim compliance in fostering codependence within violent relationships.
These ever so pervasive shapeshifting micro and macro aggressions, foster instead of death by a thousand paper cuts, death by a thousand violences, serving to keep the victim in a constant state of fear for both the safety of their lives and that any future outside of violence is even possible.
In one way or another abusers are always seeking to find a reason, whether small or large to inflict the terror and torture of harm and violence to -
Foster Patternistic Infantile Regression as the victim loses their sense of safety and autonomy in the world, and thus their right to choose their own life's progressions and lifestyle decisions with the prevalence of framing and rigging scenarios serving as powerful weapons of forced codependence and master-slave dynamics.
Undermine Psycho-Social Wellbeing with mild and even severe displays of psychosis induced as the bombardment of violence and obstruction become unbearable.
Incept Bleak Life Outlooks as the very nature of the target's wellness in the world is subverted and supplanted by threats and inhumane cruelties of violence and terror waged against them.
Likewise, those without the supportive strength of friends and family, are far more susceptible to these types of abuses, as it's easier for abusers to get away with their reigns of terror and destabilization, especially when financial and economic abuses serve as strongholds of destitution and increased levels of control and dominion within the relationship.
As a survivor of such circumstances, I can personally attest to the difficulties involved in breaking free from such harmful cycles.
The wars waged by abusers who seek to destroy through employing terroristic violence scenarios is almost unfathomable, in their depth of willingness to procure narcissistic supply.
I have been beaten down and exploited.
I have faced the horror and hopelessness of bioterrorism.
And I have had my whole world shattered, as the very nature of mine and my family's unity, safety and well-being in the world was compromised, all because we were targeted as viable sources of narcissistic supply.
Domestic Violence and the harm it causes individuals, families, communities, and even the greater society at large, is one of the most dystrophic and disturbing phenomena of our time, as predators are always looking for a reason to violate both the boundaries and quality of lives of all they seek to destroy.
Further, it proves quite difficult not only to subvert the harmful effects within Cycles Of Violence, but also to rehabilitate deeply wounded survivors - as reigniting the light of hope that refuge and the possibility of wellness outside of the tumultuous vestiges of abusive circumstances, is sketchy at best.
It then becomes the culmination of First Responders and Social Service Advocacy Groups as well as all others standing in Support of Violence Free Living, that even make it possible for survivors to experience livelihoods of wholeness and wellness far removed from the sting of Social and Domestic Violence.
-OasisAgainstViolence